I don't think there is such a thing - all you need is the proper software/hardware to process the 3d information already on the BR disc, which can be read in any PC BR drive.
Setup is similar to that for 3d gaming in that it needs to work with nvidia's 3d vision (120hz monitor+shutter glasses, or regular monitor + red/blue glasses). ATI probably has an equivalent thing, but I don't know anything about it.
The reason you have a distinct group of '3d' players and 'regular' players for TVs is that the 3d ones need extra hardware to do the processing and output the 3d content to your TV - this is stuff your graphics card and CPU will do on your PC, no need for a special player.
As for brands, I'm currently a fan of LG, because my current one (GGW-H20L) came from a friends PC that was shipped and given the UPS treatment. (apparently it "fell off a conveyor" on its way here. It then got shipped BACK to the origin for inspection/claims (DENIED), and then back out here for salvage, both times with the drive just flopping around loose inside the case/box.) And that drive STILL works, it's only got a few scratches on the faceplate!
The H20L is now unobtainium and from that rare era where HD-DVD still existed, but any current model should be fine - I've had other LG drives, and the one time I needed warranty service (dead laser) they even sent a free upgrade to a newer model!