You got kicked and muted for refusing to change from a sensitive topic after a admin requested you to do. And being friendly isn't something tolerated on a full server because it's gameplay disruptive and basically wasting a player slot.
Looking at your recent chat logs, I could easily dish out a more severe punishment for bad mouthing admins and being passive aggressive on the forums too, but I don't think you would want that.
So let's just move on, ok?